vicky's blog

well.. this is moi blog... some stuff to share...moi thoughts n feelings... n the goodness of GOD

Wednesday, August 25, 2004

72 rulez

though this news is already a day old, i still have to proclaim this:
72 won ibrg contract bridge

many thanks to zai shan, my partner... was suppose to partner junhong one but he can't play cos he set the cards...well, at least i realised i can play with someone else...

lets talk about zai shan lah... he juz turned 19 (celebrated his birthday in the tv lounge after the ibrg last night)... can't imagine he is juz 19... 19 for me seems so long ago... when that made him the youngest in the bridge team... and the only one thats underage... the whole bridge team muz cooperate... dun corrupt his mind... haha.. err... maybe its already corrupted...hmmm.... well, he's 19 because after his A levels, went NS then go OCS then sign on with Air Force.... great prospects i would say... welcome to the bridge family...

i tink the bridge team is really like a family... well at least of us are quite close... there's junhong (aka star), boon thong (aka pluto), terence (aka moon), derek (aka mercury), me (dun ask), zhenni and hui wen..hmm.. think muz start giving a nick to zai shan soon... as for the origin of the nick... ask junhong... nor forgetting the sun and the big bang... i mean for other recreational games... you dun play till 4, 5 am right? really overnight loh... can sacrifice sleep oso... we have our outings too, ktv session, movie session... terence once asked if after we graduate... will we still come out once a month juz to play bridge? u can see how strong the bonds are... alas... most of us are already in our final year... lets all jia you... this year ihrg, lets do better than last year k? at least get a better ranking? hee...

Monday, August 23, 2004

an emotional rollercoaster ride...

the past few days has been a emotional rollercoaster ride for me... lots of things started piling up, undone tutorials, unfinished readings, deadlines, FYP meetings, eca commitments, bridge training, commitments to cg and of course my own personal problems... really felt that the world is going to crash down on me anytime...

was beginning to get irritated easily (see previous post), could not control myself... i was like a volcano ready to explode... the last straw came on sunday... settled some personal stuff then the most unanticipated news came... and that was it... i explode... cried buckets, was really angry with myself... why i allowed myself to affected... but i guess i felt its time to cry it all out... the aftermath of so much crying resulted in puffy eyes the next morning...

"Reproach has broken my heart, And I am full of heaviness; I looked for someone to take pity, but there was none; And for comforters, but I found none." Psalms 69:20

this is exactly how i felt...

i thank God for a brother, he gave me the comfort (in 1plus in the morning)... no doubt he did challenged me but it made me realised that the problem... i felt forgotten... and that i should place my trust in God, not in people and not in leaders... man fail but God doesn't... thank you...

today was one of my most dreadful day (apart from thursdays), PTL that the meeting with the FYP tutor turned out much better than last week... the atmosphere was totally different... after class, went out to JP to buy a pair of shoes for the AGM on wed, just realised that i don't have shoes to match my clothes for AGM this morning on the way to class, later we had dinner at pizza hut... blessings just came in, my neighbour gave me 2 slices of cake which were baked by her bf's grandma, all the way from penang... yum yum... its delicious... can feel the love that was placed into baking the cake... did i mentioned that she once treated me to a bowl of red bean soup...

looking forward to tomorrow, will be having ibrg contract bridge... hopefully 72 will win, our biggest opponents are from 70...

Thursday, August 19, 2004

pissed off...

here i am again... feeling a bit pissed off right now... how bad can michael be? not as if you didn't get him as your tutor you will do better... no one knows for sure who would get the last laugh...like michael said, you grades doesn't matter after you graduate... got a friend tt called me juz to ask if my tutor was michael... she sounded quiet glad over the phone as she was having the HRM at the same timeslot but in another tutorial room... hello??? you called juz to ask me that??? sounded as xing zai le huo somemore... so sianz... saw her at CITS... first thing she ask me was whether i'm queuing up to get the free lunch n goodie bag (btw, today is union day... nt much diff for me, classes for me aren't cancelled anyway...well at least i dun have to do make up lesson)... do i seem such a greedy person to you??? the only good thingy about the goodie bag is the organiser and hey if i wanted that i dun even need to queue under the hot sun together with the other ppl... all i got to do is ask... saw again friend... someone from another church... asked me the same thing again... "never go queue ah?" dun understand the mentality of these ppl sometimes... okies... my complaint session is over... thanks for taking the time to read this...

bingo

its official, my HRM tutor is the much feared Michael Heng... juz finish attending the first tutorial...

some said we struck lottery...well, good or bad its not for me to conclude... everything has its pros and cons... before i went to class this morning, i printed my assignment 1... i told GOD that whatever the outcome might be... it is always the best in HIS sight... for HIS ways are higher than our ways and HIS thoughts are higher than our thoughts....

formed our e-project group...the other members in my group includes andrew, syming (they are my year 1 classmates, i know its not a coincidence), lex (junhong's year 1 roomie), kaili n one china guy...

will update more later... seeya (",)

HRM Tutorial 1

errr... been a week liao... no time to blog oso... so i post my HRM Tutorial 1 for you to read loh =P
1. Describe your experience in contacting and visiting your social service provider.

Upon receiving the task of establish “First Contact with The Community”, I was feeling excited and anxious. With my experience of being a volunteer since my Junior College days, community work was no stranger to me. I called my friend, who is the Regular Service Project Elders Coordinator in my extra-curricular activity, to get the contact number of the person-in-charge of the home which they were volunteering with. I managed to call the person to arrange for a visit to the home. The first conversion with Mr. Tan, the person-in-charge, was a pleasant experience. He was friendly and granted my request of a visitation promptly. Personally, I feel that it is not what you know but who you know that matters.

The social service provider that I visited is the Asian Women's Welfare Association Community Home for Senior Citizens, located a stone’s throw away from the bustling Ang Mo Kio Central. Finding the place was a breeze, equipped with a map, I took a 10mins walk from the Ang Mo Kio MRT Station to the home. Upon reaching the place, I went took a detour to visit the two other social service providers located in the same block, namely the Seniors Activity Centre and the READYCARE Centre. All three social service providers are under the wing of the Asian Women's Welfare Association Elderly Services.

I proceeded to the second level of the block where the office is located. When I was in the office, Mr. Tan was still busy with his work. In the mist of waiting, I took the opportunity to observe the normal administration operations of the home. The office settings gave me further understanding of the place even before the interview started. This also provided me with some of the questions I had in mind and at the same time triggered off more questions. The visitation was a great experience; I had an interactive session with Mr. Tan. He gave me an overview of the daily operations of the home and we discussed about the challenges faced with running a home. Mr. Tan was also gave me a tour around the place.

Speaking from the point of a volunteer, this home is one of the best I have been to, I am truly impressed with their concept of a home within the community and how the home has managed to integrate with the rest of the resident living in the same block. Mr. Tan and his colleagues are full-time staff at the home, but I feel that the effort, dedication and love they put into their work is much greater than the monetary returns they receive. Indeed, to work as though you never needed the money.

2. Which 3 technovations did you identify to be useful to your SSP?

The residents in the home consist of senior citizens above the age of 60; most of them are independent and require little or no medication. To cater for emergencies, all units in the block of flats are installed with an Alert Alarm System. In the event of an emergency, residents can pull the cord, which are located both in the living room and in the toilet). Upon activation, the stay-in nurses will immediately attend to the residents in their units. From the current system in place, one can see that the home places top priority in the safety of their residents.

Although most of the residents are healthy and some are still working, unforeseen situations could arise, simply because of the age of these residents. A lot of the chronic diseases are silent killers and very often, the person would be caught off guard, the current Alert Alarm System will only work when the resident has sufficient strength to go and pull the cord. In view of this, I proposed a device that works both as an emergency alarm and as a tracking system. This device is to be worn at the wrist of the resident at all times. In an emergency, the resident only need to press a button on this device to activated the alarm system. Help can then be provided promptly regardless of where the resident might be.

Another function of this wrist-worn device is its tracking capability. To ensure the safety of the residents, the home will close its gates at 2000 hrs. After which they would have to do a head count to ensure all the residents are in the home. Failing which, the person-in-charge will have to telephone all the hospitals in Singapore to check whether this missing resident is hospitalised. If the resident is not hospitalised, they would have to search the surrounding neighbourhood for the missing resident. To ease the work of the staff and improve the efficiency of the searching process, this tracking mechanism within the device will be able to track the location of the resident with the help of a computer program. To prevent resistance from the residents on wearing the device, the device also serves as a watch.

For elderly that require medication, a “Pills Dispenser Machine” will aid the nurses in distributing the medicine to the residents. The nurses will key in the information on prescribed amount of medication, timing of consumption and duration of medication for each resident in the system. Next, the different types of medicine will be put into individual containers. The machine will dispense the drugs based on the information keyed in by the nurses at the stipulated timings. The drugs for each session will be placed in a small cup that bears the name of the resident. This machine will ease the work of the nurses and prevent accidental mixed up of medication for different resident.

A major barrier between the foreign nurses and volunteer with the residents would be the communication barrier. These foreign nurses speak no dialects while most residents cannot understand English. Many of the volunteers especially students faced this difficulty as well. A translator which translates English and the various dialects will be able to break this language barrier.

3. What specific skills are needed to establish and follow-up on first contact successfully in the outside world?

To establish first contact with the outside world, the essential skills are communication skills and listening skills. To communicate effectively, we need to be sincere in our actions. For example, instead of sending a generic email to all the social service providers and hope that at least one will reply favourably, we can make a phone call to the organisation. By doing this, it shows your sincerity and adds a personal touch. Also the tone you use is crucial. Since we are requesting a favour from the organisation, we have to be courteous. Smile when you are speaking to the person, although he cannot see you, the smile can still be heard. Before making the call, understand the purpose of the making the call and the objective of doing follow-ups. Do some research on the organisation and prepare the list of questions that you might get. Always be prepared to go the extra mile if you want to get the job done.


4. How would you go about developing the skills described in your answer to Question 3 so as to be ready for the world?

In our daily activities, we have to train to listen to others more and to think fast and slow to speak. Most of the time, people talk without thinking and in the process, others might be offended without you knowing. The tongue is like a double-edged sword, some people use it to encourage and motivate others, while others use it for slandering and causing hurt. Therefore, we have to guard our words.

Our attitude towards others plays an important role. The world does not revolve around you and it did not exist because of you. When you require a favour from others, you have to ask. Even in school, when you need others to lend you their notes, they would be more willing to lend to you if you speak nicely to them. Being meek is not being weak, if we can think of ourselves less and think of others more and make the effort to go the extra mile for others, others will treat you better too.

In a nutshell, be wise and be nice to others.




Tuesday, August 10, 2004

Singapore Idol or Singapore Idiot?

watch Singapore Idol in the tv lounge last night... i have really got to take my hats off to the contestants for their bravery... sometimes i wonder why the tv station decides to show the poor, the bad and the ugly side of singapore? (not singaporeans)... mind you its singapore idol not singaporean idol... anyway, these are some of the more memorable ones:

  • the stripper (wats he thinking? stripping to his bright yellow trunks... the street eyebrow plucker)
  • the mosquito singer (can't even hear a thing... the judges should have just mouth the 'comments'... maybe that way he will understand)
  • the lemon tree guy (aka the william hung wannabe)
  • the opera singer (this show does not really suit him lah... honest...)
  • the still-in-NS mode guy (hmmm... think he is suffering from shadows of his NS days...)

well, these people really have the courage to sing in front of the judges... i for one won't do that... not forgetting some who really know who to sing and have the X-factor in them...way to go... can't wait for wednesday to catch the next eposide of Singapore Idoit... oops...Singapore Idol

Friday, August 06, 2004

Friday 6 August 2004

my 2nd blog within a day... shd be studying...oh well...

0900 -- woke up late, missed the 930 lecture...

0945 -- left the room then forget to bring the library book to return (its due today)

1030 -- attended E427N (software engineering) tutorial... copied painstakingly all the tutorial
answers... so long so many words...hand-ache...not that i don't want to attempt the do the questions before hand...see for yourself=> Why does it take so long to develop a software? Why is development cost so high? Why can't all the bugs be found before selling to the user?... man this type of questions...

1200 -- junhong was locked out of his room by his roomie... so silly... seems that no one got his roomie hp number... lend him my hp to call another friend to get his roomie number... (oh.. did i mentioned that they were from cat high?) in the end his roomie msg n ask him to go to the hall office to get the key... a simple solution right? sometimes we tink until so complicated that the simplest solution goes unnoticed...

1500 -- head down to AMK... need to visit this social service provider: Asian Women Welfare Association Community Home for Senior Citizens... its for my HRM assignment...

1600 -- msg huling on the train... then she called me asking if there was cg yesterday cos no one informed her so he thought that there wasn't... hmmm...? anyway, she said she will be coming down for either service 2 or 3 cuz she got some celebration thingy in the evening...

1645 -- finally reached the home in AMK... talked to the person mr tan...

1700 -- left the home.. haha go all the way there for 15min... bo bian lah... tts the only time he free to entertain me... so i skiped GE today loh... walking ard AMK central... abit not so crowded.. think their business affected by the relocation of the bus interchange... feeling abit sianz... saw some clothes... but cash flow tight...in the end i still bought a top.. cheap only $11.20.. haha must pamper myself abit oso... (yesterday on the way to cg, was told that eugene went on a massive shopping spree on spent $450 on 10 clothing items... i was like: "eh? so much? even gals dun spend so much in one shot." then they replied, girls shopping is accumulative one...but one time so much on clothes i will heart pain one...)

1745 -- called my friends to see they wanna eat dinner... then all say eat liao... and its not even 6 loh...

1845 -- reached boon lay... dumped into terence again... haha... alighted at hall 15 bus stop, saw junhong coming down from shuttle bus... he said he got a suddenly interest in taking up dancing... hmm...???

2030 -- just finish typing my blog... got class tmr... bette not get swallowed by my bed again... tmr got guitar lesson again....hee...

xXx cell group multiplication xXx

hi i'm back from cell group... ryan announced the arrangement for cg mulitplication... well, its been quite a while already... we knew it was coming... coming... soon... hee... juz like the handover of the PM-ship... everyone knows whos who but when? haha... same scenario... well, i'm still in E206...not much changes to E206 except that gary was put under siew choo in W285... new additions are huiming n max... haha lets welcome them to TEAM NTU.. yeah!!! well, the freshie lian is still in W110... gotta trust bro ryan's arrangement... nevertheless, ryan did mention about training someone(ans: long...haha... our guess lah) so here's who u r expecting in E206:
me (of cuz...duh...)
long
eugene
max
dexin
joyce
huiming
(hope i dun miss anyone out)

now the crucial qn is.... when n where will cell group be held??? last time before having combined cell with W110, we had our sessions in sch...sometimes wednesday.. sometimes friday..oh yah.. did i mention this before.. we sit on chairs one... not on the floor... so leg no cramp...hee (",)

on the way back to NTU (yeah!!! finally got ppl pei wo hui NTU le... yi ge ren hao ji mo de...), we thought of gg to watch the fireworks at the Esplande next sunday 15th August... anyone onz??

Wednesday, August 04, 2004

the JOY of the LORD

week 2 of new semester... day in day out... study study study... fyp fyp fyp... eca eca eca... but the joy of the LORD is my strength... its now halfway through the week, juz came back from WSC welcome tea... (missed a bs class this wk) , anyway, its really sai kang loh but no choice... for the eca pts n my nice little single rm, i can say its worth it loh... stretch me a bit oso good... last week was rather sianz though didn't have to attend alot of classes because classes were cancelled due to flag day n stuff... but was really lethargic... went for ONPM on friday stay till 1 cuz next morning got class... prayed for strength n joy... well, God is good... was filled with joy literally... helped me to go through this 3 days...though classes start early n end late... i felt different... nt like last wk... do things with joy n not unwillingly...

went to see my fyp supervisor juz now... tink he from hong kong... the accent still there after so many years... first impression was: he's friendly... (co-sup not so...) he talked to us abt the scope... shifting the focus of the fyp to a bit of database, which i'm more familiar with... then he brought us to the lab... the lab tech oso cantonese... n he oso mentioned "zi ji ren" when he realised that i'm oso cantonese...hee... gotta establish good contacts... will be frequenting there every week for the next 9 months or so...

praying that this joy will not wear off... but grow from strength to strength...

oh yah... saw lian today.. her first day in NTU...yeah!!!